Welcome
Write the Memoir You’ve Been Avoiding
I spent five years writing and rewriting my memoir—figuring things out the slow, painful way. This course is what I wish I had access to when I was battling with the words on the page.
No fluff. No vague “find your voice” advice. Just the real mechanics of how memoir actually works—what holds it together, what makes it publishable, and what stops most people from ever finishing.
If you’ve been circling a story, this is where you finally sit down and write it.
I’ve been teaching memoir writing for over a decade—since my own memoir was published and shortlisted for a major prize. In that time, I’ve written over 60 memoir pieces published in major outlets, and worked with writers at every stage of the process.
I’ve delivered workshops through organizations like Writing NSW and Writers Victoria—teaching hundreds of writers how to shape their stories into something that actually works on the page.
What you’re getting in this course isn’t recycled advice.
It’s a consolidation of everything I’ve learned—through writing, publishing, teaching, mentoring, and seeing exactly where writers get stuck.
And more importantly, how they move forward. Here’s what that looks like in practice:
“Working with Amra has been transformative. She simultaneously built my confidence and vastly improved my writing and manuscript, while also helping me navigate the publishing industry. I am especially grateful for the way she responded to my work on its own terms by building an understanding of my style and then supporting me to improve it.”
— Farrin Foster, memoir mentee
“The memoir writing workshop with Amra was an incredible experience. Amra's enthusiasm and passion were contagious, and her constant encouragement allowed me to explore not only a new genre of writing, but also to reflect on my life and how my experiences have shaped who I am today… I now have the confidence to share my writing with others.”
— JH, Sunshine Library Memoir Writing Workshop Participant
“It was a pleasure having Amra Pajalic facilitate these Memoir Writing Workshops. Amra was always prepared… and shared her extensive experience, skills and passion for this writing genre. Amra made a concerted effort to get to know the participants and provide ongoing support and advice.”
— Josephine Mifsud, Senior Library Services & Programs Officer
This isn’t just about learning how to write memoir. It’s about learning from someone who has done it, taught it, and helped others do it too. Because the difference isn’t information. It’s experience—and knowing how to apply it.
No vague advice. No “just write from the heart.” This is about learning how memoir actually works.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN
Over five structured weeks, you’ll move from raw memory to crafted narrative:
- Find your voice (and stop sounding like everyone else)
- Turn memory into material using real research methods
- Master core memoir techniques like point of view, tense, and narrative control
- Use devices like foreshadowing and flashback without confusing your reader
- Write scenes that feel alive through dialogue, sensory detail, and sentence craft
- Structure your memoir into chapters that actually hold together
Each lesson includes:
- A video explanation
- A clear, no-nonsense handout
- A worksheet that makes you do the work
Because writing improves through practice—not theory.
HOW THIS COURSE IS DIFFERENT
Most memoir courses focus on expression. This one focuses on execution.
You’re not just remembering your life—you’re learning how to:
- shape it
- structure it
- and make it readable for someone else
This is the difference between: “I’ve lived a lot” and “I’ve written something people want to read”
WHO THIS IS FOR
This course is for you if:
- You’ve been “meaning to write your story” for years but don’t know where to start
- You’ve started writing but it feels scattered or unfocused
- You want to understand how memoir actually works, not just vent onto the page
- You’re ready to take your writing seriously—even if you’re a beginner
WHAT YOU GET
- 5 weeks of structured lessons
- 12+ detailed handouts
- 12+ guided worksheets
- Lifetime access (self-paced)
- A complete framework you can reuse for future pieces
WANT PERSONAL FEEDBACK?
You can upgrade at any time:
- 500-word critique – targeted feedback to sharpen your writing
- 1,000–3,000 word critiques – deeper structural and craft guidance
- 1:1 mentoring – ongoing support to help you complete a full manuscript
This isn’t just a course.
It’s an entry point into serious writing development.
PRICE
$50
And here’s the reality: That’s less than most people spend on a single writing workshop--for a system you can use again and again.
If you want to actually learn how to write memoir properly, you’re in the right place.
COMPLIMENTARY LESSON
I know it’s hard to commit to a course when you’re not sure what you’re getting. So I’ve made the first lesson free—so you can see exactly how the course is structured and how it will help you.
Choose a pricing plan
Write the Memoir You’ve Been Avoiding Course Structure & Inclusions
Week 1: Foundations – Theme, Voice & Research
Lesson 1
- Handout 1: Theme and Process (video + downloadable handout)
- Worksheet 1: Finding Your Voice
Lesson 2
- Handout 2: Research and Process
- Worksheet 2: Memoir Research Module
Lesson 3
- Handout 3: Memoir Writing Techniques
- Worksheet 3: Applying Memoir Techniques
Week 2: Craft – Point of View & Tense
Lesson 4
- Handout 4: Point of View
- Worksheet 4: Point of View Exercises
Lesson 5
- Handout 5: Tenses
- Worksheet 5: Present tense scaffold and Past tense scaffold
Week 3: Depth – Foreshadowing & Flashback
Lesson 6
- Handout 6: Foreshadowing
- Worksheet 6: Foreshadowing
Lesson 7
- Handout 7: Flashback
- Worksheet 7: Flashback
Optional Feedback Opportunity
- 500-word critique – $50
- Annotated feedback + written comments
- Add 1-hour mentoring session – $100
Week 4: Writing Craft – Sentences, Style & Dialogue
Lesson 8
- Handout 8: Types of Sentences
- Worksheet 8: Sentence Structure
Lesson 9
- Handout 9: Writing Strategies-Transitional phrases, Powerful verbs, Five senses, Simile, metaphor, alliteration
- Worksheet 9: Writing Strategies
Lesson 10
- Handout 10: Writing Dialogue in Memoir
- Worksheet 10: Dialogue Practice
Optional Feedback Opportunity
- 1000-word critique – $75
- (10% discount if you’ve already purchased a critique: $67.50)
- Add 1-hour mentoring session – $100
- (10% discount if returning: $90)
Week 5: Structure – Focus, Narrative & Chapters
Lesson 11
- Handout 11: Finding Your Focus
- Worksheet 11: Finding Your Focus
Lesson 12
- Handout 12: Memoir Structure
- Worksheet 12: Narrative Arc
Lesson 13
- Handout 13: Chapter Structure
- Worksheet 13: Chapter Planning
Optional Feedback Opportunity
- 3000-word critique – $200
- Annotated feedback
- Includes 1-hour meeting
- 2-week turnaround
- (10% discount if returning: $180)
Payment via private Payhip link (booking details provided after purchase)
Mentoring Options
Stage 1: Initial Mentor Meeting
90 minutes – $350
- Pre-reading of up to 5,000 words
- In-depth discussion of your writing and project
- Feedback on craft, structure, and direction
- Exploration of next steps and mentorship fit
Stage 2: Ongoing Mentorship (by application only)
$100 per hour session
6-session package: $600
- Submit up to 5,000 words in advance
- 1-hour meeting to discuss feedback
- Ongoing support, accountability, and development
Flexible structure:
- Additional reading: $100 per 5,000 words
- Monthly meetings recommended
- Ideal commitment: 6–12 months
All sessions conducted via Google Meet.
Access & Delivery
- All lessons delivered via video, handouts, and worksheets
- Hosted on private pages with password access
- Lifetime access to all materials
- Learn at your own pace
Final Note
This course is designed to take you from scattered ideas…
to a structured, intentional memoir.
You can move through it independently,
or layer in feedback and mentoring when you’re ready.
Either way—the work is yours to do.
And now, you have the tools to do it properly.
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